Dear World... I dont complain a lot and I have a really great life that I love but at times it gets really stressful and I dont talk about that much mostly I'm a go with the flow, think happy thoughts kinda girl.... Butterflies and Rainbows. Not today........ well not right at this moment. I was out doin barnyard chores when my honey walks out and says... our 15 yr old son is kicked off the bus for 5 days..... for smoking. What The?!?!? We dont allow our 15 yr. old son to smoke and he knows this. He played with fire and just got burned... we try to teach out kids ALL decisions made in life have consequences...it's up to you to decide what consequences are worth living with. So since he decided to smoke on the bus and got busted... he not only hurt himself he hurt me........ I'm the one who has to drive him to school and pick him up for the next 5 days and this really ticks me off because there is no reason I should have to drive him to school when a perfectly good bus rides by our house... the school is about 15 minutes away. My son does not realize yet that he just made my life sooooo much harder I already have to drive my brother (who lives with us) back and forth to his appointment/school and my daughter back and forth to work and she does not have set hours... they are all over the place so now I have to juggle all 3 of their driving needs, barnyard chores, house chores, my life...... ooo this is gonna be fun.
Ps. Hes grounded from his phone, computer, house phone, goin places or having friends over.
Was it worth it? I think not.
Pss... If your a praying person... please say a short prayer for me and my family this morning we have to deal with a problem I'm not even gonna go there & talk about... it will be involving a court date, God knows what it is and its all in his hands.
Psss... I love my son with all my heart (his older sister and younger brother too) and of course only want the best life for him. Hes a good boy that just does stupid things... Hes learning life...... the hard way.
Thank ya.
I am, and I will, Jen. Been through this type thing a few times myself. Kids can disappoint when they get to that age but in the long run they usually turn around. Keep your chin up, girl, you and Brian do an awesome job!
ReplyDeleteI certainly do hope things work out for you. It's a lot easier to deal with the goat kids than the human ones. If only the worst problem was getting their head stuck in the fence occasionally. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteI'm sure your son will straighten up as he gets older, 15 is a tough age. Sending you {{HUGS}} today, sounds like you need them!
ReplyDeleteHope it all works out. Prayers coming.
ReplyDeleteHope he helps you with your chores to make up for all the extra work he made for you.
ReplyDelete*hugs* God bless. ♥
What a contrast to your last post. Life is sure a roller coaster isn't it? Smoking is one thing - but on a bus???
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